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I know most of you just read the title of this post and are probably all “WTF?” and I totally get it. This whole hating dating thing is a new realization for me and I’m kind of surprised too. But really I’m just over the whole thing.
I am over paying money for dating websites with creepy guys on it. I am over getting “set up” by everyone I know. I am over stressing out over what to wear and then wondering if I’m dressed appropriately. I am over the whole ordeal really.
I hate the awkward first date conversations…especially if it’s a blind date or an online date and you don’t know each other beforehand. I wish there were a manual that you just went by on first dates to make it less weird. Can I get an amen here??
I hate the whole where do we end things…a kiss?? The awkward hug?? The even more awkward handshake?? And then there’s the whole waiting game post date. Do you text or call first? Do you wait in him to text or call? If her texts/calls the same night does that enter him into creeper status?
So basically I am over dating. I have always been the type who doesn’t date for “fun” I have always dated with the intent to find my potential husband. I mean what’s the point of dating if it doesn’t have the potential to go somewhere? GAH!!
All of my friends and family just say that I am too picky and that I need to settle but I refuse to settle just because I am 31. I will wait and find my guy that was created just for me, my perfect person.
I am perfectly content with being single at this point in my life. Maybe a little too content? We will see…
Are you over dating? Did you ever feel that way? I hope I’m not the only one…